IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING

IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING

FIGHT TILL LAST BREATH....

Naah … Naah … if you think that I am being pessimistic to think like this … than please I plead for the grievances …

I just mean to say that your position doesn’t matter a lot… what matter is how you tackle with the present situation… Yaar just do something… don’t just be bottled up in yourself… face the crowd with guts … fuck down each and every ass that turns against you… make people understand your capabilities… your power… what you can do… what are your limits … and how you can put their asses down their throat… arrey I am not a Jihadi … who is turning you against the system… but the clear-cut thing is that we are a part of system… we are its integral part … we need to do changes and improvise it so as to meet the needs of the present situation and circumstances… and to do so is our sole responsibility…

We live in a sucking system … it just sucks me … don’t know whether you feel the same… if you do a single thing that is not in the orthodox pattern as followed till today than its very obvious that thousands of fingers will turn around you to put you down… I just firmly believe in the changes… NOTHING IS PERMANENT IN THIS WORLD EXCEPT THE CHANGE…  Great lines by an anonymous writer…Nothing will be permanent … each and every fixation of ours is just temporary … each and everything loses its charm and its dignity … its honour… its pride… but one thing that goes side by side along with our screwed up…happy…or any kinda life is THE CHANGE … nature follows change… and so we do… we flow with the stream of time…then when it does come to the change in our system then … why can’t we just shut up our boggling mouth…

Our prevailing education system is just a huge failure and nothing great than that…My this blog post is dedicated to Mr. Gautam Kushwaha… a very good friend of mine…best friend I must say… naah … brother I must say… naah... naah… An integral part of myself… Each attribute that I add to him would be just so small to describe our relation… He was the person who withstood with me in my worst time I faced… I was just screwed up in my life… Then he just came as a messenger of God in my life… with a halo and an enlightening face …Yeah ... I remember the very first day of our meeting . . . in coaching classes... when I just leaped over his Tiffin box Stanley ka dabba ... Paneer ... I just licked my fingers all the way... indeed was a great stuff to have till you get a paunch...

 I do remember the day when he was screwed up by our most prolific teacher ... silent mode teacher ... but when it comes to revenge from students ... he does take care that it is paid well by snugging our asses hard ... he was none other than Mr. SV sir I must not include his name... nick name – daayan ...  the way he looked at us , means backbenchers ... it was as if he would strip our clothes away and make us stand on desks... but nevertheless we were also lazy assholes... we never ever dared to missed his lectures and the one those were motivational ... were the only one we took seriously ... but not for more than an hour... so let’s move to that incidence for which I must salute Mr. Gautam Kushwaha...

One day as usual  SV sir was busy in teaching the fucked up physical chemistry and that too in a phenomenal slow speed... and as usual our very own Gautam Ji was sitting at the last or may be second last row ... constantly chewing chewing-gum and giving fuck you and your ideology man !!! look to SV sir ... that day he gave a motivational lecture for more than 40 minutes ( at least )... R.I.P our souls from what we had suffered just because of him... I guess probably each and every student must have cursed him for that ... But now we had respect for him ... coz he just not encountered Daayan but also replied him bashing his ass right off in front of whole Berozgaar samudaya... (bloody batch mates)

SV Sir : “Aap last mein ... utth jaaiye”

Gauti : “Sir mein ??” Pretending as if nothing has happened...

SV Sir : “Aap kuch kha rahe hai?”

Gauti : “No Sir..” Giving as usual his too emotional and innocent look....

SV Sir : “Aap kabse chewing-gum kha rahe hai.. main aapko teen-chaar baar notice kar chukka hun...phir bhi aap chabae jaa rahe hai ??”

Gauti : “Hmmm...” Taking a long deep breath...

SV Sir : “Aap logo ko pata hona chahiye ke jahan aap padh rahe hai wo ek mandir hai.. and discipline mein rehna chahiye... apne goal par focus rakhiye .. hum chyahate (^TM Trade Mark chahte hai ko chyahate hai kehna)  hai ke aap log apne kaam par focus kare... Aap ki aisi harkato se apke determination pe kami aati hai...”

As soon as he said this...

Gauti : “Sir chewing-gum se determination pe fark kaise pad sakta hai”

Oh my gosh !!! Gauti literally added fuel to this cold war. Now we were expecting it to be prolonged...

SV Sir (Shouted) : “Main iss class ka teacher hun... yahaan har cheez mere according hogi...Jo main chahonga wo hoga... Aapke determination pe bhale hi fark na padta ho... mere determination pe jarur padta hai... hum sabke determination pe fark padta hai.........”

And he continued his motivational lecture for an hour... We were all cooked up... And I swear I was dozing off between his motivational lecture till he was staring me...

Mentally Gautam won the cold-war... as he made SV Sir so hyper as he was never before.... Gauti was THE HERO for us...

I don’t usually praise others.. even if they reach the highest peak of success... but Gauti for me is an exception ... as you must have encountered in Inorgy chemistry ( It’s my habit to say Orgy rather than Organic... Obviously Orgy was more luring than Organic..)

For me he is like an incarnation of Edward Collins (Twilight  Saga) and I believe he must have found her Bella (Kristen Stewart) for sure...btw he is having one... (Gauti , what about Lavina ??? whatever be the spelling of her name). He does look like Robert Pattinson... very much similar... He is goddamn handsome... And as a human he is just superb .. Each and every person would love to have his company...he is too friendly with everyone... he has too many good qualities... actually I am running short of words to describe him... how good is he... I bet no one can ever get a friend like him... I love you bro... and hope you will be doing the same...

I would also like to acknowledge Abhishek Pawar ( He is totally gawaar...), Durgesh Patil ( Organic ki library or we should say Durgu Bakch*d... for the constant bak-bak he like to do in classes...), Ankit Shukla ( Golu Bhiyaa... Future Prime Minister of India )... Amrit Singh (For providing us the latest Hollywood songs .. pop albums.. and all the amazing stuff for our mobiles and also for the double meaning and non-veg. jokes..) Satyam Dubey (For providing the porn stuff... in between the lectures...remember the fake pix of Aalia Bhatt in threesome) Animesh Goyal ( For sorting out our queries regarding academics) Pooja ( for constantly staring at the last bench means at Gautam or me....it’s still a mystery ... that which of the two of us she used to stare...never got a chance to ask her...) Shreyanshul (for the best non-veg. jokes I have ever heard) and last but not the least , again Mr. Gautam Kushwaha Sir ( whom I am praising him since last hour and my bff).

 There are also some people who have been a constant source of entertainment and providing us light-heartening jokes at times of depression and bad vibes.. some of them are Mogli... Newton (mandir ka ghanta ..jo aata bajake jata..)..Chakka.... Yahoooo...  Moti Bhains.... Chirutha... T.B ki mareej... Bihari... Banarasi Babu...Aashiq (constantly busy with his mobile ) Chhota Chetan... Raghuvanshi... and how can we forget CHIMAN BAHAAR  and that one rare species NIKHIL VIJAY VERMA  iski to maa ch**ni chahiye... bloody Netaji’s asshole...

I don’t think my life would have ever been complete without them... Our teachers SV Sir (daayan ) , ST Sir (ray to ray hai rey baalak) , MNS ma’am (rollie-pollie teacher) , VPS Sir (Bevdaa... Kya aap isse samajh paa rahe hai ??? haaan ????) , DB Sir (Rajdhaani Express...bol beta tune kya kiya...hence poofed ) AJS Sir (DON) , AS Sir (South Indian Anna..) VL Sir (far better than VPS but as usual a substitute teacher) DNP Sir (Angry Birds ka swine..)..........thanks for making our life more hell..... Draapers (Droppers) to tumne bachho ka Draper bana diya...

Oh no !!!! I just realised that we are deviated 180° from our concerned topic IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING. Actually we didn’t ...yeah ... I was doing so knowingly... remembering the some important people in my life... Moreover remembering Gautam ... for the teaching me IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING. He is the one.. who told me these words of great wisdom while I was depressed and was in my deep agony...near our very own bus-stand... where we usually use to slosh down... I made it a golden rule to follow... I made it a habit to think according to each... each and every decision of mine is made according to this golden rule... whether its big or small...

We should think big (DhiruBhai Ambani’s ideology) and implement our actions according to it... Failure is not a hurdle rather it should be a ladder to success... Don’t fear to think big ... whatever may be the result .. whether positive or negative... As such there is no word like “Positive” if you look at it carefully (+)  , it’s a combination of two negatives (         ).. also if you ever took your mathematics seriously you would know that - * - = + as simple as that ... no need to panic yaar...

 I would like to take an excerpt from one of my blog post  INNOVATIVE CRISIS MANAGEMENT...

Our focus should be on finding out the best possible way to come out of the mess we had created on our own, but that’s not an easy task either. You have to snug off your ass so hard that your worst nightmare may appear to come alive.

 Heading toward a new discussion... let’s do a simple calculation... what if you multiply 1 * 0 or anything for instance     ∞ * 0 what the hell does it make difference to the answer... answer is obviously 0 ... a big round zero... so what if you multiply your enormously big problem { ∞ } with a simple solution  { 0 } the answer is simply fucking out zero.

A very simple solution to our so-called complicated problem. The difference lies in the perception...the way we look up at the things ... at their nature... it doesn’t matter how rich or how poor you are... all that matters is that .. how you took up the things that come along your way... optimism is a great tool to deal with the worries , the anxiety... it can heal up any wound that is incurable... Be positive ... even many of you would be having that same blood group .. it’s all along the way... if our whole system can run on optimistic blood then why the hell can’t we portray the same in our behaviour.. in our perceptions...

I hope .. I have done my job in making you understand that... Just do your work .. whatever may be the conditions... just go for it... whether its big or small...don’t give up... If not big... try to do small things... what if you don’t become Ambani .. Birla ...Tata.. or an IITian... at least you must be contended with  yourself , what you will be future and what will be up to... once you do things on your own... you will be at least happy and self contended for what you have ... coz you have earned it ... from your hard work... you have perspired for it... Believe me even with your seven digit salary... you would be happier than the one earning twice as you.. and who have no peace of mind.

Shut the fuck up each and every mouth that is pessimistic... Believe in yourself...  Grab the opportunity that you are getting ... because opportunity is like a sand –dune ... if you don’t climb over it at correct time and situation.... it will be shifted at other place by the passage of time... Opportunities are not meant to be measured or scaled ... they are just the one stepping ladder to your success ... so take it... even if you take short steps ...it doesn’t matter... eventually you will get the road to success... Sometime you need to be firm in your determination.... I have a goal to do M.S. from MIT... even if thousand people laugh at you... all you need is.. not to loose your focus and determination... Determination pays a lot ...I already told you..

We all are middle class people (nowadays even a person with a bungalow and two cars is considered as middle class)... We all have simple dreams ... may I use the term small dreams ... we dream of having a seven digit salary, have a 3 BHK house of your own , own a vehicle that is not just two wheeler but four wheeler is the last option... , to have a soul mate who understand you more than yourself..., and at last have a peaceful and contended  life...

The above crap is all what we want in our life.... So why to envy with a colleague having eight digit salary... coz you think he is earning more than you ... so he would be more happy than you all the way....but you never know whether he is contended with his life...you never know whether is having peace of mind... you never know whether is enjoying his marital life ( Here I mean to say sex life ) being an asshole you should accept me as I am...yaar a chipmunk smile is also required..in our over-boring life.... So the big question rises here is : “Why the hell you are envying others???” .

Accept what you are... be happy with what you have ...  that will be more fruitful for you... for the reasons you don’t know whether the person in front of you is as happy as you... and as contented as you....

I would like to mention here that, some people may be just thinking that he is just forcing us to do odd things... but clearly I am not.... I have already told that THINK BIG... but I am also emphasizing on the fact that if you fail to do so then just don’t get disheartened and disappointment or just think that you are a failure...don’t think that the things are not made for you and are not according to you... don’t think like losers...rather face the situations with all the guts you have... do whatever next is possible... do it with your full will and strength and let the whole world know what you can do and what you are capable of doing....remember when all the things come against your way then definitely you are on the right side of the road...

If you do the great things its well and fine but if due to some reason or due to grace of God you are not able to achieve what you wanted ... then don’t just leave it ... follow your dreams ... follow your passion... you should have a backup plan for everything you do... what if not this... what if not that....do the same thing in other way... for there are many ways to do the same things ... all that differs is.. some choose the used ones and others chooses the  withered road... you will have to face difficulties ... it will not be the bed of roses but at last you will find roses and that too red ... greeting you with love and all the sweetness of world to your new life ....every exit is an entry to somewhere else...

Do the things ... with a boom ... out of the box ... out of the blue...that is the way to live life...do it for yourself...

Be financially... emotionally and morally strong...Use all the 24 hours of the day ... don’t spare even one second.. Do hard work each and every second  and enjoy what you do...Life follows our mind and thoughts..if you are commitment , you will be successful...

I just read somewhere in the newspaper a well educated girl committed suicide ...I still thinks what is the use of such education which doesn’t make you understand the value of life...Education should make you learn the value of our life... we are learning science but we are not learning the science of living..We are reading history.. but not learning the fact that “YOU CAN CREATE HISTORY”... The one that make you learn the way to live your life - that is education...

“Backbencher will not remain Backbencher forever...situation and circumstances will change...”.The need is to find a solution not to find a problem... There should be passion in you to find the solution rather to cry out on problems...otherwise your life will be useless and it will be so dead... In our whole life we have to do transition in different roles...we have to play different roles in our life... to do so it is important that we should come out of our comfort zone..for instance if a new born baby hinders himself in his comfort zone then he will never learn to walk...he will crawl..creep...fall on face..but still continues to try hard to walk... this will make him learn to walk... do thing out of your comfort zone... Don’t let the fear of losing overcome the happiness of achieving something... No transformation... No changes... means no growth...

Let us take an instance that someone gifts you a handkerchief...you have obligation toward that person ... you thanks him/her... later you throws it saying it’s just disgusting to gift a handkerchief... You just insulted the person NOT the gift... in the same way you are insulting God by ignoring your health... God has gifted you this life... Give at least one hour to Health and take freedom for rest twenty three hours... It’s a good deal... give one take twenty three...definitely you are not from an IIM... so, don’t think so much just make the deal...Otherwise your body will whole day remind you like an advertisement of a bank “MAIN HUN NAA...” . Take it as a responsibility to take care of your health and body... toward yourself, family and the society...

Time is continuously slipping out of our hand... You know what is average life ??? 70 years and in metros its just 60... out of that we spend  13 years, snoring out... 7 years in travelling and rest of the years in an illusion of fulfilling the needs and responsibilities of our family... Everyone is getting 24 hours..but LEADERS are those who are using each and every second with a positive approach... Nothing great will happen by reading the success stories of Shahrukh , Aamir and Dhoni... Create your own history... Learn to respect time or it will not respect you...Don’t kill your time...else I must not say but time will kill you... that's the bitter truth...Stop blundering yourself...Be honest to yourself...

You get a ten rupee note lying on the road... you didn’t took it... rather a thief or a hooligan takes it away..Now he will invest this money to harm someone ... So, it would have been a lot better if you have taken that money...Money is a very important attribute of our life... What we all are doing is just for money... we are studying for money... we are doing a job for money... all we do is just for money and nothing else...there are some exceptions too ...people doing jobs voluntarily for service to man kind ...but most of us ...99 % people are doing a rat-race for money...some are caught in the rattrap the one who uses odd ways  and the rest are just running for money till the end of their life...The sole reason for the increasing crime and chaos in the world is a good man doesn’t want to be filthy rich..we just run behind money putting on blinders but don’t think wisely on the ways to make money...If you want terrorists to kneel down , become weak and feeble...just make them poor....For stable life you need to be financially strong...

How many of you have last time done a dinner with your grandpa - grandma or any elder of your family??? In many of our families the elder women have the dinner at last and that too alone... sit with them for a moment...do talk with them...spend some quality time with them... this will not waste a bit of your energy...the smile on their face will give you and to them, a sense of self satisfaction and eternal happiness ... Nothing in this world can give you this happiness...Spread happiness and love among people around you...life will become beautiful...Be a source of love and happiness..You will get the same in return...

All we need is to feel Positive vibes, Energy, Optimism, Peace, Happiness, Responsibilities... We always ignore these dimensions of life rather we should focus on these and live our life with these dimensions...

You must have seen people in Maharashtra... All you need to integrate them is just shout  “Jai Shivaji ... Jai Maharashtra” and they all will stand with each other ... let’s take another instance from Delhi .. You must have heard people using words with suffix “–iyo” e.g. kariyo...khaiyo...jaaiyo... and some copyright words for the people of Delhi “Banda... for dude similarly Bandi...for babe... totta... for sexy... fukrey and velle ... for useless...” you feel so good to hear these kinda words... you feel integrated to yourself and your identity...if you are a true Delhite..So just be integrated with yourself ... don’t just fool around....  I know this was totally a crap...but never mind it ... If you are with me then you have to bear the burden of these kinda nonsense...

There should be some moments or I must say intervals in your life when you need to stop working ... this interval should be given to introspect ourselves... we should make an account... what we are doing ... what we had done and what should we do in future ... it is important to do so... I firmly believe in this formula and you should also practise it in the prevailing conditions...

We should try to do something new and different every day that provide you with a positive and a fresh energy ... You should feel the “FEEL GOOD” factor in your life....It’s important to make your life more lively... I would like to wrap up the post by a quote ...

“I find four great classes of students:

ü  The dumb who stays dumb.

ü  The dumb who become wise.

ü  The wise who go dumb.

ü  The wise who remain wise.” –  Martin H. Fischer

Now the decision entirely rests upon you ... find your class and work accordingly... for  IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING.