IT’S
BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING
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| FIGHT TILL LAST BREATH.... |
Naah … Naah … if you think that I am being pessimistic to
think like this … than please I plead for the grievances …
I just mean to say that your position doesn’t matter a lot…
what matter is how you tackle with the present situation… Yaar just do
something… don’t just be bottled up in yourself… face the crowd with guts …
fuck down each and every ass that turns against you… make people understand
your capabilities… your power… what you can do… what are your limits … and how
you can put their asses down their throat… arrey I am not a Jihadi … who is turning you against the
system… but the clear-cut thing is that we are a part of system… we are its
integral part … we need to do changes and improvise it so as to meet the needs
of the present situation and circumstances… and to do so is our sole
responsibility…
We live in a sucking system … it just sucks me … don’t know
whether you feel the same… if you do a single thing that is not in the orthodox
pattern as followed till today than its very obvious that thousands of fingers
will turn around you to put you down… I just firmly believe in the changes… NOTHING IS PERMANENT IN THIS WORLD EXCEPT
THE CHANGE… Great lines by an
anonymous writer…Nothing will be permanent … each and every fixation of ours is
just temporary … each and everything loses its charm and its dignity … its
honour… its pride… but one thing that goes side by side along with our screwed
up…happy…or any kinda life is THE CHANGE …
nature follows change… and so we do… we flow with the stream of time…then when
it does come to the change in our system then … why can’t we just shut up our boggling
mouth…
Our prevailing education system is just a huge failure and
nothing great than that…My this blog post is dedicated to Mr. Gautam Kushwaha…
a very good friend of mine…best friend I must say… naah … brother I must say…
naah... naah… An integral part of myself… Each attribute that I add to him
would be just so small to describe our relation… He was the person who withstood
with me in my worst time I faced… I was just screwed up in my life… Then he
just came as a messenger of God in my life… with a halo and an enlightening
face …Yeah ... I remember the very first day of our meeting . . . in coaching
classes... when I just leaped over his Tiffin box Stanley ka dabba ... Paneer ... I just licked my fingers all the
way... indeed was a great stuff to have till you get a paunch...
I do remember the
day when he was screwed up by our most prolific teacher ... silent mode teacher
... but when it comes to revenge from students ... he does take care that it is
paid well by snugging our asses hard ... he was none other than Mr. SV sir I must not include his name... nick name
– daayan ... the way he looked at us ,
means backbenchers ... it was as if he would strip our clothes away and make us
stand on desks... but nevertheless we were also lazy assholes... we never ever
dared to missed his lectures and the one those were motivational ... were the
only one we took seriously ... but not for more than an hour... so let’s move
to that incidence for which I must salute Mr. Gautam Kushwaha...
One day as usual SV
sir was busy in teaching the fucked up physical chemistry and that too in a
phenomenal slow speed... and as usual our very own Gautam Ji was sitting at the
last or may be second last row ... constantly chewing chewing-gum and giving fuck you and your ideology man !!! look
to SV sir ... that day he gave a motivational lecture for more than 40 minutes
( at least )... R.I.P our souls from what we had suffered just because of
him... I guess probably each and every student must have cursed him for that
... But now we had respect for him ... coz he just not encountered Daayan but
also replied him bashing his ass right off in front of whole Berozgaar samudaya... (bloody batch
mates)
SV Sir : “Aap last mein ... utth jaaiye”
Gauti : “Sir mein ??” Pretending as if
nothing has happened...
SV Sir : “Aap kuch kha rahe hai?”
Gauti : “No Sir..” Giving as usual his
too emotional and innocent look....
SV Sir : “Aap kabse chewing-gum kha rahe
hai.. main aapko teen-chaar baar notice kar chukka hun...phir bhi aap chabae
jaa rahe hai ??”
Gauti : “Hmmm...” Taking a long deep
breath...
SV Sir : “Aap logo ko pata hona chahiye ke jahan aap padh
rahe hai wo ek mandir hai.. and discipline mein rehna chahiye... apne goal par
focus rakhiye .. hum chyahate (TM
Trade Mark chahte hai ko chyahate hai kehna) hai ke aap log apne kaam par focus kare... Aap
ki aisi harkato se apke determination pe kami aati hai...”
As soon as he said this...
Gauti : “Sir chewing-gum se determination pe fark kaise pad
sakta hai”
Oh my gosh !!! Gauti literally added fuel to this cold war.
Now we were expecting it to be prolonged...
SV Sir (Shouted) : “Main iss class ka teacher hun... yahaan
har cheez mere according hogi...Jo main chahonga wo hoga... Aapke determination
pe bhale hi fark na padta ho... mere determination pe jarur padta hai... hum
sabke determination pe fark padta hai.........”
And he continued his motivational lecture for an hour... We
were all cooked up... And I swear I was dozing off between his motivational
lecture till he was staring me...
Mentally Gautam won the cold-war... as he made SV Sir so
hyper as he was never before.... Gauti was THE HERO for us...
I don’t usually praise others.. even if they reach the
highest peak of success... but Gauti for me is an exception ... as you must
have encountered in Inorgy chemistry ( It’s my habit to say Orgy rather than
Organic... Obviously Orgy was more luring than Organic..)
For me he is like an incarnation of Edward Collins
(Twilight Saga) and I believe he must
have found her Bella (Kristen Stewart) for sure...btw he is having one...
(Gauti , what about Lavina ??? whatever
be the spelling of her name). He does look like Robert Pattinson... very
much similar... He is goddamn handsome... And as a human he is just superb ..
Each and every person would love to have his company...he is too friendly with
everyone... he has too many good qualities... actually I am running short of
words to describe him... how good is he... I bet no one can ever get a friend like
him... I love you bro... and hope you will be doing the same...
I would also like to acknowledge Abhishek Pawar ( He is
totally gawaar...), Durgesh Patil ( Organic ki library or we should say Durgu
Bakch*d... for the constant bak-bak he like to do in classes...), Ankit Shukla
( Golu Bhiyaa... Future Prime Minister of India )... Amrit Singh (For providing
us the latest Hollywood songs .. pop albums.. and all the amazing stuff for our
mobiles and also for the double meaning and non-veg. jokes..) Satyam Dubey (For
providing the porn stuff... in between the lectures...remember the fake pix of
Aalia Bhatt in threesome) Animesh Goyal ( For sorting out our queries regarding
academics) Pooja ( for constantly staring at the last bench means at Gautam or
me....it’s still a mystery ... that which of the two of us she used to stare...never
got a chance to ask her...) Shreyanshul (for the best non-veg. jokes I have
ever heard) and last but not the least , again Mr. Gautam Kushwaha Sir ( whom I
am praising him since last hour and my bff).
There are also some
people who have been a constant source of entertainment and providing us
light-heartening jokes at times of depression and bad vibes.. some of them are
Mogli... Newton (mandir ka ghanta ..jo aata bajake jata..)..Chakka....
Yahoooo... Moti Bhains.... Chirutha...
T.B ki mareej... Bihari... Banarasi Babu...Aashiq (constantly busy with his
mobile ) Chhota Chetan... Raghuvanshi... and how can we forget CHIMAN BAHAAR and that one rare species NIKHIL VIJAY
VERMA iski to maa ch**ni chahiye... bloody Netaji’s asshole...
I don’t think my life would have ever been complete without
them... Our teachers SV Sir (daayan ) , ST Sir (ray to ray hai rey baalak) ,
MNS ma’am (rollie-pollie
teacher) , VPS Sir (Bevdaa... Kya aap isse samajh paa rahe hai ??? haaan ????)
, DB Sir (Rajdhaani Express...bol beta
tune kya kiya...hence poofed )
AJS Sir (DON) , AS Sir (South Indian Anna..) VL Sir (far better than VPS but as
usual a substitute teacher) DNP Sir (Angry Birds ka swine..)..........thanks
for making our life more hell..... Draapers (Droppers)
to tumne bachho ka Draper bana diya...
Oh no !!!! I just realised that we are deviated 180° from
our concerned topic IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING. Actually we didn’t ...yeah
... I was doing so knowingly... remembering the some important people in my
life... Moreover remembering Gautam ... for the teaching me IT’S BETTER TO BE SOMETHING
THAN BEING NOTHING. He
is the one.. who told me these words of great wisdom while I was depressed and
was in my deep agony...near our very own bus-stand... where we usually use to
slosh down... I made it a golden rule to follow... I made it a habit to think
according to each... each and every decision of mine is made according to this
golden rule... whether its big or small...
We should think big (DhiruBhai Ambani’s ideology) and
implement our actions according to it... Failure is not a hurdle rather it
should be a ladder to success... Don’t fear to think big ... whatever may be
the result .. whether positive or negative... As such there is no word like
“Positive” if you look at it carefully (+)
, it’s a combination of two negatives ( ).. also if you ever took your
mathematics seriously you would know that - * - = + as simple as that ... no
need to panic yaar...
I would like to take
an excerpt from one of my blog post INNOVATIVE CRISIS MANAGEMENT...
Our focus should be on finding out the
best possible way to come out of the mess we had created on our own, but that’s
not an easy task either. You have to snug off your ass so hard that your worst
nightmare may appear to come alive.
Heading
toward a new discussion... let’s do a simple calculation... what if you
multiply 1 * 0 or anything for instance
∞ * 0 what the hell does it make difference to the answer... answer is
obviously 0 ... a big round zero... so what if you multiply your enormously big problem { ∞ } with a simple solution { 0 } the answer is simply fucking out zero.
A very simple solution to our so-called
complicated problem. The difference lies in the perception...the way we look up
at the things ... at their nature... it doesn’t matter how rich or how poor you
are... all that matters is that .. how you took up the things that come along
your way... optimism is a great tool to deal with the worries , the anxiety...
it can heal up any wound that is incurable... Be positive ... even many of you
would be having that same blood group .. it’s all along the way... if our whole
system can run on optimistic blood then why the hell can’t we portray the same
in our behaviour.. in our perceptions...
I
hope .. I have done my job in making you understand that... Just do your work
.. whatever may be the conditions... just go for it... whether its big or small...don’t
give up... If not big... try to do small things... what if you don’t become Ambani
.. Birla ...Tata.. or an IITian... at least you must be contended with yourself , what you will be future and what will
be up to... once you do things on your own... you will be at least happy and
self contended for what you have ... coz you have earned it ... from your hard
work... you have perspired for it... Believe me even with your seven digit
salary... you would be happier than the one earning twice as you.. and who have
no peace of mind.
Shut
the fuck up each and every mouth that is pessimistic... Believe in yourself... Grab the opportunity that you are getting ...
because opportunity is like a sand –dune ... if you don’t climb over it at
correct time and situation.... it will be shifted at other place by the passage
of time... Opportunities are not meant to be measured or scaled ... they are
just the one stepping ladder to your success ... so take it... even if you take
short steps ...it doesn’t matter... eventually you will get the road to success...
Sometime you need to be firm in your determination.... I have a goal to do M.S. from MIT... even if thousand people laugh
at you... all you need is.. not to loose your focus and determination...
Determination pays a lot ...I already
told you..
We
all are middle class people (nowadays even a person with a bungalow and two
cars is considered as middle class)... We all have simple dreams ... may I use
the term small dreams ... we dream of
having a seven digit salary, have a 3 BHK house of your own , own a vehicle
that is not just two wheeler but four wheeler is the last option... , to have a
soul mate who understand you more than yourself..., and at last have a peaceful
and contended life...
The above crap is all what we want in
our life.... So why to envy with a colleague having eight digit salary... coz
you think he is earning more than you ... so he would be more happy than you
all the way....but you never know whether he is contended with his life...you
never know whether is having peace of mind... you never know whether is
enjoying his marital life ( Here I mean
to say sex life ) being an asshole you should accept me as I am...yaar a
chipmunk smile is also required..in our over-boring life.... So the big
question rises here is : “Why the hell you are envying others???” .
Accept what you are... be happy with
what you have ... that will be more
fruitful for you... for the reasons you don’t know whether the person in front
of you is as happy as you... and as contented as you....
I
would like to mention here that, some people may be just thinking that he is
just forcing us to do odd things... but clearly I am not.... I have already
told that THINK BIG... but I am also emphasizing on the fact that if you fail
to do so then just don’t get disheartened and disappointment or just think that
you are a failure...don’t think that the things are not made for you and are
not according to you... don’t think like losers...rather face the situations
with all the guts you have... do whatever next is possible... do it with your
full will and strength and let the whole world know what you can do and what
you are capable of doing....remember when
all the things come against your way then definitely you are on the right side
of the road...
If you do the great things its well and
fine but if due to some reason or due to grace
of God you are not able to achieve what you wanted ... then don’t just
leave it ... follow your dreams ... follow your passion... you should have a
backup plan for everything you do... what if not this... what if not that....do
the same thing in other way... for there are many ways to do the same things
... all that differs is.. some choose the used ones and others chooses the withered road... you will have to face difficulties
... it will not be the bed of roses but at last you will find roses and that
too red ... greeting you with love and all the sweetness of world to your new
life ....every exit is an entry to
somewhere else...
Do the things ... with a boom ... out of
the box ... out of the blue...that is the way to live life...do it for
yourself...
Be financially... emotionally and
morally strong...Use all the 24 hours of the day ... don’t spare even one
second.. Do hard work each and every second
and enjoy what you do...Life follows our mind and thoughts..if you are
commitment , you will be successful...
I
just read somewhere in the newspaper a well educated girl committed suicide
...I still thinks what is the use of such education which doesn’t make you
understand the value of life...Education should make you learn the value of our
life... we are learning science but we are not learning the science of
living..We are reading history.. but not learning the fact that “YOU CAN CREATE
HISTORY”... The one that make you learn the way to live your life - that is
education...
“Backbencher will not remain Backbencher
forever...situation and circumstances will change...”.The need is to find a
solution not to find a problem... There should be passion in you to find the
solution rather to cry out on problems...otherwise your life will be useless
and it will be so dead... In our whole life we have to do transition in
different roles...we have to play different roles in our life... to do so it is
important that we should come out of our comfort zone..for instance if a new
born baby hinders himself in his comfort zone then he will never learn to
walk...he will crawl..creep...fall on face..but still continues to try hard to
walk... this will make him learn to walk... do thing out of your comfort
zone... Don’t let the fear of losing overcome the happiness of achieving
something... No transformation... No changes... means no growth...
Let us take an instance that someone
gifts you a handkerchief...you have obligation toward that person ... you
thanks him/her... later you throws it saying it’s just disgusting to gift a
handkerchief... You just insulted the person NOT the gift... in the same way
you are insulting God by ignoring your health... God has gifted you this
life... Give at least one hour to Health and take freedom for rest twenty three
hours... It’s a good deal... give one
take twenty three...definitely you are not from an IIM... so, don’t think so
much just make the deal...Otherwise your body will whole day remind you
like an advertisement of a bank “MAIN HUN NAA...” . Take it as a responsibility
to take care of your health and body... toward yourself, family and the
society...
Time
is continuously slipping out of our hand... You know what is average life ???
70 years and in metros its just 60... out of that we spend 13 years, snoring out... 7 years in
travelling and rest of the years in an illusion of fulfilling the needs and responsibilities
of our family... Everyone is getting 24 hours..but LEADERS are those who are
using each and every second with a positive approach... Nothing great will
happen by reading the success stories of Shahrukh , Aamir and Dhoni... Create your own history... Learn to
respect time or it will not respect you...Don’t kill your time...else I must
not say but time will kill you... that's the bitter truth...Stop blundering yourself...Be
honest to yourself...
You
get a ten rupee note lying on the road... you didn’t took it... rather a thief
or a hooligan takes it away..Now he will invest this money to harm someone ... So,
it would have been a lot better if you have taken that money...Money is a very
important attribute of our life... What we all are doing is just for money...
we are studying for money... we are doing a job for money... all we do is just
for money and nothing else...there are some exceptions too ...people doing jobs
voluntarily for service to man kind ...but most of us ...99 % people are doing
a rat-race for money...some are caught in the rattrap the one who uses odd ways and the rest are just running for money till
the end of their life...The sole reason for the increasing crime and chaos in
the world is a good man doesn’t want to
be filthy rich..we just run behind money putting on blinders but don’t think
wisely on the ways to make money...If you want terrorists to kneel down ,
become weak and feeble...just make them poor....For stable life you need to be
financially strong...
How many of you have last time done a
dinner with your grandpa - grandma or any elder of your family??? In many of
our families the elder women have the dinner at last and that too alone... sit
with them for a moment...do talk with them...spend some quality time with them...
this will not waste a bit of your energy...the smile on their face will give
you and to them, a sense of self satisfaction and eternal happiness ... Nothing
in this world can give you this happiness...Spread happiness and love among
people around you...life will become beautiful...Be a source of love and
happiness..You will get the same in return...
All we need is to feel Positive vibes,
Energy, Optimism, Peace, Happiness, Responsibilities... We always ignore these
dimensions of life rather we should focus on these and live our life with these
dimensions...
You
must have seen people in Maharashtra... All you need to integrate them is just
shout “Jai Shivaji ... Jai Maharashtra”
and they all will stand with each other ... let’s take another instance from
Delhi .. You must have heard people using words with suffix “–iyo” e.g.
kariyo...khaiyo...jaaiyo... and some copyright words for the people of Delhi “Banda...
for dude similarly Bandi...for babe... totta... for sexy... fukrey and velle
... for useless...” you feel so good to hear these kinda words... you feel
integrated to yourself and your identity...if you are a true Delhite..So just be integrated with yourself
... don’t just fool around.... I know this was totally a crap...but never
mind it ... If you are with me then you have to bear the burden of these kinda
nonsense...
There should be some moments
or I must say intervals in your life when you need to stop working ... this
interval should be given to introspect ourselves... we should make an account...
what we are doing ... what we had done and what should we do in future ... it
is important to do so... I firmly believe in this formula and you should also
practise it in the prevailing conditions...
We should try to do something new and
different every day that provide you with a positive and a fresh energy ... You
should feel the “FEEL GOOD” factor in your life....It’s important to make your
life more lively... I would like to wrap up the post by a quote ...
“I find four great classes of
students:
ü The dumb who stays dumb.
ü The dumb who become wise.
ü The wise who go dumb.
ü The wise who remain wise.” – Martin H. Fischer
Now the decision entirely
rests upon you ... find your class and work accordingly... for IT’S
BETTER TO BE SOMETHING THAN BEING NOTHING.
